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Verfasst von Lord Truesword, 23.04.2016 - 19:25
I [23/m] am in my graduation year in university in Canada. While working on a group project with three other people, all of whom were close friends, all [23/f], one of my partners made a mistake costing us 20%. It made all the work I had put into the project worthless. I had had a very bad day, that night I could not sleep and messaged to confide in a girl who is in the group and whom I have a crush on, a kebab.

I said a lot of negative things in my rant about the partner who had made the mistake but I started off by saying that "All three of you are a bunch of morons." My friend calmed me down but seemed a bit upset.

When i met her the next day she was very angry at me and told me how no one had ever called her a moron in her life. It was our last week together before we were going our separate ways and she refused to do anything social with me and cancelled plans we had already made but we were still talking normally.

I was very apologetic and I tried to make things right. Said I am sorry and asked for her forgiveness but she refused. We had a fight a month prior where she was rude to me but she apologized and we then reconciled and everything was perfect.

I was very upset though that she was behaving as such and choosing to end things on bad terms. I got angry and cut off all contact with her. There was still a bit of the project left to do and the remaining time was awkward. We didn't say anything to each other. I expected her to attempt to reconcile as I believed her at fault but she didn't try to.

I got further upset and sent her an email, explaining my actions. The email was not rude but ended things by a "goodbye and good luck with your life' line.

After a couple of days I was overcome with grief, and I unblocked her on fb and apologized to her in a message and added her as a friend. After two days she deleted the friendship request and marked it as spam so i cannot add her again and she did not reply to me.

I then texted her and she said that there wasn't anyway we could be friends because i said too many mean things and that I should stop messaging her and wished me a good life.

I called her but she did not pick up so I sent another written apology a couple of days later, which has gotten no response for two days. This person has since left to Kebabia and will not be returning. I will never see them again but they have left all avenues of communication open.

I know I have made plenty of mistakes here but I would really like to reconcile. What can I do?

Can the racist community of atwar please tell me that the kebab wasn't worth it?
She was 10/10 and had a nice butt and we did lots of things together but geez was she thick and have an awful personality.
26.04.2016 - 18:58
Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

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kebabs is only for turks.
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27.04.2016 - 05:13
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Geschrieben von Columna Durruti, 25.04.2016 at 17:23

After all, she made the right decision.

Agree.
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27.04.2016 - 10:12
Geschrieben von Lord Truesword, 26.04.2016 at 08:07

Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

So I need advice, I know I should know this by now but kebab, is a term for turks, or all muslims? Because I hate suadis, Iranians, Pakistanis, Iraqis, and anything in Africa that isnt egypt or morocco, and I like kurds, syrians, jordani, egyptians, and berbers abroad. By the way some muslims are great people just like anyone else my childhood friend wasul, was from Pakistan and he was a great friend, and my current girlfriend is from Egypt, but like most of you probably expect, you think she's a sheet wearing terrorist while in reality, she plays video games like ark and smite with me (best jungler I know) and she kicks my ass at call of duty. All and all I geuss my point is all people are diferent, you got shit muslims like opi and commando eagle, and then very nice ones as well. I geuss your kebab was a shit person because she was a shit person not because of race or religion.


I am Pakistani and Muslim too so it is not about religion. I have used kebab in this instance to refer to a Turkish girl. So yes it is about race I guess... but you are right she probably doesn't reflect all Turks. I know she's had massive troubles with guys in the past. A lot of people said she was weird. I have never met any other Turks before this IRL so I can't really say though.


I will give you a honest advice.
Maybe yoou were never meant, maybe you will get together in the future. Maybe she wasn't worth you, or you weren't worth her.
Maybe she is great person , or an awful one.
You can't know that for sure.
Neither can we.
At war community allowed me to meet great and smart people, like phoenix, mia and buffalo.
Also aw community allowed me to meet retards like khalesi, civecnavi and tito.
So askintlg advice on off topic isn't smartest thing to do when your future is at stake.
Maybe if we said "Go apologize", you would find a way.

TL DR: Aw community and your gf, possibly wife , aren't the best match.
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No such thing as a good girl, you are just not the right guy.

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30.04.2016 - 19:28
Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

my current girlfriend is from Egypt,


Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

she kicks my ass at call of duty.



-> Egypt

-> Kicks your ass at a shooting game

-> Muslim


What did you expect?
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30.04.2016 - 19:55
Geschrieben von Al Fappino, 30.04.2016 at 19:28

Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

my current girlfriend is from Egypt,


Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

she kicks my ass at call of duty.



-> Egypt

-> Kicks your ass at a shooting game

-> Muslim


What did you expect?

She's greek on her mother's side and berbers on her fathers, sexier then any Portuguese!
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30.04.2016 - 20:04
Geschrieben von Helly, 30.04.2016 at 19:55

Geschrieben von Al Fappino, 30.04.2016 at 19:28

Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

my current girlfriend is from Egypt,


Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

she kicks my ass at call of duty.



-> Egypt

-> Kicks your ass at a shooting game

-> Muslim


What did you expect?

She's greek on her mother's side and berbers on her fathers, sexier then any Portuguese!



You haven't met any Portuguese tho
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30.04.2016 - 21:03
Geschrieben von Al Fappino, 30.04.2016 at 20:04

Geschrieben von Helly, 30.04.2016 at 19:55

Geschrieben von Al Fappino, 30.04.2016 at 19:28

Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

my current girlfriend is from Egypt,


Geschrieben von Helly, 26.04.2016 at 05:45

she kicks my ass at call of duty.



-> Egypt

-> Kicks your ass at a shooting game

-> Muslim


What did you expect?

She's greek on her mother's side and berbers on her fathers, sexier then any Portuguese!



You haven't met any Portuguese tho

Actually my home state of Michigan in america is very multicultural, there are large population of most ethnicities, there is a city here nick named little albania and there are two groups who live there albanians and Portuguese and they are constently murdering each other.
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We are not the same- I am a Martian.
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